The bottom dropped out and you’re left wondering, “What happened to me?” Your spouse is angry and hurt and confused. You try to understand but don’t know how you can go back or make it right. You’ve got enough to deal with trying to figure out how to put your own life back together. It all feels so overwhelming!
Your spouse is going through something big. And through no choice of your own, except choosing to marry this person, you’re all caught up in it too. You feel like you got hit by a truck. You never saw this coming and don’t know just how to deal with it. You’re trying to love and support your spouse, and at the same time you feel betrayed, angry, and resentful that you now have this life-changing challenge you really don’t want. You wish you could just go back, go back to before this bomb dropped on you, back when things were good.
When you are ready to fix your relationship, when you’re motivated to change, when you just can’t stand the distance between you anymore, help can’t come fast enough. Like a couple’s retreat, intensive therapy sessions allow you to dig deep and make real change quickly.